Friday, May 22, 2015

I Suppose Paris is Pretty Magical...

I am now living in Viscri, Romania for the next 3 months. I won’t say the transition has been easy; even just getting here was quite an adventure. My flights started from Houston to Paris on Wednesday afternoon, so by Thursday morning I was in Paris with a 10 hour layover, so I decided I should go out and explore the city!

This is a lot easier said than done, since I don’t speak a word of French and I needed to find a place to hold my carry on luggage. After an hour of being completely confused about where I needed to go I finally found the place that will watch your luggage for you in the train station. Then the next issue to address was how do I purchase a ticket into Paris and which one is right? All the lines were extremely long, so I hopped into the shortest one I saw and hoped for the best. 30 minutes later and a tiny ticket in hand I searched for the proper train to take me into the city center of Paris. Once again I decided to just wing it and got on a train and took a seat next to the window…a few minutes later an older couple sat next to me. They spoke English!! They sounded familiar too. They began asking me in what sounded like strained French something about directions I assume, and when I answered in English we all had relief wash over our faces. I found out they were from Sugarland, Texas, a mere 20 minutes away from where my parents live and they were on their 33rd anniversary trip through France. Surprised that I had just jumped on a random train they helped me understand where it was that I needed to be going and how I would get there (luckily I had picked the right train because it had already left at that point!)

An hour later I found myself standing on a platform. Alone. In Paris. I decided to follow a lady who looked like she knew where she was going, she was wearing 6 inch stilettos so I thought one wouldn’t wear such uncomfortable shoes if they didn’t know where they were…My assumption worked as I found myself in the middle of beautiful Paris. I have never been enthralled with the mystique of Paris, I have never even wanted to visit because there have always been other places more important for me to see; however, as soon as I saw the streets and the building I understood. I understood why so many of my favorite authors turned to Paris for inspiration and chose it as their desired location to write. There is something magical about it. With the language, the wine, the flowers, rows upon rows of old books for sale next to the Seine, the boats, and the Parisians on small streets off the beaten path; I was inspired like so many before me to write. After getting lost for a while in my search for Notre Dame, I finally found it and decided to make my way to the Eiffel Tower by walking along the river. I stopped and had a delicious brunch and filled my journal, page after page while sipping on red wine and eating an omelet. I cherished this moment of solitude as I was completely alone in foreign city, a foreign country, and yet I was completely content with only myself. It was one of those moments where I just stop and let everything around me wash over me so I can absorb every sensation and emotion.  

Along the way towards the Eiffel Tower, I decided to walk among the residential streets and take a break from the occasional strong whiffs of urine that accompanied the area surrounding the scenic river. This is the second time I got lost while wandering the streets of Paris, and I can say it was the most pleasant experience, especially for being lost. I walked along winding streets occasionally catching glimpse of the Eiffel Tower to guide my progress, then all of a sudden I wandered into a park that provided a picturesque view of the laced, wrought iron structure. As I walked closer and saw firsthand how large it was, I decided I had to go to the top. While I was waiting in line the guy behind me asked if I was alone…well yes. He questioned me further, continually commenting on how ironic it was that we were both alone and he thought it would be a good idea for us to go up together, for picture purposes of course. So up we went, swapping cameras constantly taking pictures for one another, and eventually together. As we neared the top a rainstorm rolled in drenching me (good thing I had decided to wear a white t-shirt), but despite the cold rain and the slightly creepy Lebanese guy continually hitting on me the view of Paris and the river was breathtaking.


By the time I got down from the tower I knew I needed to rush back to catch a train and subsequently catch my flight to Budapest in four hours. I awkwardly said goodbye to Tarek declining his invitation to dinner and briskly began attempting to walk back towards Notre Dame. (I didn’t realize how much walking I would be doing because I stupidly decided to wear cute and unsupportive sandals…my feet were killing me!) Along the way I stopped and had dinner at a cute restaurant, and I discovered that the entrance to the train station I had emerged from earlier that morning was right next to Notre Dame, if only I had turned around and looked!  

Random building I found while searching for Notre Dame...little did I know I had just barely missed it. The selfie game at it's weakest. 

Ohh look I found you!! Now how do I get to you?

Notice the sensible footwear...

It was so worth getting soaked. 

Look at all the little ants down there! Oh wait those are people...
Commence mini panic attack at the height at the lowest level. 

My picture partner Tarek...can't say I will miss you. 

Sunday, May 3, 2015

On My Way To Transylvania Romania

Quick update on something big happening in only 10 days! This summer I will be moving to Romania! I will be living and working in the small town of Viscri, Romania, in the heart of Transylvania Romania (maybe I’ll meet Dracula!), the site of a fortified wall and church which is a UNESCO World Heritage Site. It will be like stepping back in time! I will be living there for three months doing a myriad of activities from writing, touring the town and discovering everything it has to offer, and teaching English to the children of the family that has graciously allowed me to stay in their guest house. I am extremely excited to experience a culture so far removed from mine and learn from the people I have yet to meet! Although accompanying all that excitement is a lot of nerves about overcoming the language barrier, discovering food that I like, and missing my family, my precious dog Tuxedo, and my friends. In the end this is my dream: to travel, work, and write! And if your dreams do not scare you then they are not big enough. In closing I will leave you with a quote I discovered while reading that has become almost a personal mantra of mine in the past year.


“Fear begets fear. Power begets power. I willed myself to beget power. And it wasn’t long before I actually wasn’t afraid.” –Cheryl Strayed, Wild

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

The Houston Marathon!

It has been sixteen days since I have completed my first marathon, the Houston Chevron Marathon. When I first signed up for the marathon I had this idea that I was going to train to qualify for the Boston Marathon; however, shortly after starting graduate school I realized that I had over-committed myself and needed to readjust my goal for the race. I decided that instead of aiming to run under 3:30 I would aim to run the marathon in 4:00 or under. As the semester picked up speed and training grew more time consuming I began to question if I could do both training and school successfully. To top it off I added a week-long vacation in the middle of the semester and to visit my best friend in Panama where training took a backseat to some amazing once in a lifetime adventures!

Fast forward to race day…

As I reached downtown Houston with my dad at 5:45 AM my nerves started growing uncontrollably. I had been reciting the mantra to just finish and not hurt myself for days now, and I was praying it would come true. After walking around the corrals and talking to my dad about whatever came to mind to distract myself from the self-doubt that was beginning to seep into my mind, it was time to get in Corral A and start warming up and stretching. Luckily my dad stood on the other side of the fence and offered to hold my things for me and kept me calm until it was time for the race to start.
Leading up to the gun going off there is music booming through downtown as the sun is just starting to rise, the national anthem is sung, and thousands of runners push themselves forward slowly to the start line. All the anticipation from months of grueling training are bubbling up the surface as we all wait for our turn to cross the line and to begin our 26.2 mile journey.

Once I had crossed the line and was actually able to run I was soon joined by a middle aged man (I wish I remembered his bib number), but him and I were running at the same pace so he decided to stick with me and my GPS watch for the first few miles of the race. However, I lost him after a quick trip to the port-a-potty. The miles were passing quickly and I was running faster than I anticipated which made me extremely nervous because I still had such a long way to go.

Mile 5: My dad met me and took my arm sleeves from me and got scolded by a volunteer about being close to the runners and the course…

Mile 6: My mom missed me, so she called me. I can now say I talked on the phone while running a marathon. I also was able to text people back using Siri; technology has come so far!

Mile 10: My parents met me again (running a marathon really is a team effort). They were full of encouragement and surprise at my pace, but they also had some of my nutrition and a much needed hat! At this point in the race I was feeling great! There was no pain, my nerves had finally subsided, and I was barely even breaking a sweat.

Mile 13.1: I passed the halfway mark only two minutes slower than I raced the half last year!!

Mile 16. I hit the wall and I hit it hard. At this point my knee started killing me; it was the same pain that I had experienced last year in the half marathon which was excruciating and made me take a step back from running for a few months to allow it to heal. I panicked. I didn't want to hurt myself; I had promised my parents I wouldn't do that this year, but I had also come so far…16 miles so I didn't want to give up. I decided my best option was to stop and stretch and walk it off…start jogging and walk until I could get to my parents.

Mile 17: Hobbling to the left side of the course I met with my parents who were all full of smiles, and I was a complete Negative Nelly at this point because my knee was hurting so bad. I begged them for medicine which they didn't have with them at the moment…that was a crushing moment. But I continued to walk jog my way towards the next mile marker.

Mile 18: Miracles do happen!! My dad drove past me on the course, stopped the car and stuck his hand out of the window with three or four magical little blue pills. Pain medicine!! Eagerly I tried to take the medicine with no water while running…this doesn't work due to dehydration. So I take care to hold the moist medicine in my hand til the next water stop.

Mile 19: Water. There was my mom holding a water bottle so I could take my medicine as soon as possible. I can do this…once the medicine kicks in!
At around this point I am getting a flood of encouraging texts from friends and family. All of which Siri reads to me in a monotone voice and she also reads out the emoticons (queue frowny face with furrowed brow and fish with puckered lips). This amuses me until I realize I am no longer experiencing the dreadful knee pain. Hooray!! The miles begin to pass rather quickly at this point. I am getting so close to finishing!

Mile 23: I see a guy stretching on the side of the road and when I glance back at him I realize that I know him. It was my old roommate Joe!! So of course I had to stop and take a selfie with him.

Mile 24: I passed Raymond Cooper, one of my many bosses, on the sidelines! He
was certainly my biggest fan during that stretch along Allen Parkway (the land of hills…)

Mile 26.2: My watch beeps that I have run my first marathon….but I haven’t crossed the finish line yet? Such a let down


Mile 26.2 (for real): As I approached the finish line I turned off my music and listened to the music being played throughout downtown and the broadcasts being announced as runner crossed the finish line. When I crossed I was completely overwhelmed by the purest sense of happiness. I had just run a marathon. I had done it on my own. I had trained for it on my own. This personal victory was all mine at 4:08:53!